Pompoir (vaginal penis stimulation)

Pompoir (also known as "playing the flute", and "the Singapore grip" ) is a sexual technique in which the woman uses her vaginal muscles to stimulate the man's penis.[1][2][3][4] Both partners remain still, and the woman strokes the man's erection by rhythmic, rippling pulses of the pubococcygeus muscles, so this practice is best performed in a woman on top position.

Performing Kegel or pelvic floor exercises can increase a woman's skill in Pompoir by strengthening the relevant muscles, and allow her to identify, and isolate individual muscles, to contract them in turn to provide the rippling sensation.[1][2]

 

Kabazzah

"Kabazzah" is a variant technique that originates from South Asia, where the female additionally uses her abdominal muscle contractions to stimulate the penis of the male partner, who must remain totally passive. Women are reported to have spent many years in training before becoming proficient in this technique, and as such is considered highly difficult to perform. The act itself is a variety of tantra, its purpose being to enhance and increase the duration and intensity of intercourse. The word translates as 'holder', and the sensation can be likened to that of 'milking'.[5][6][7][8]

 

References

  1. a b Suzie Heumann, Susan M. Campbell, The Everything Great Sex Book: From Sensuous to Sizzling, the Hottest Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Spicing Up Your Sex Life, Everything Books, 2004, ISBN 1580627390, p.63
  2. a b Bobby Dempsey, Tantric Sex, David & Charles, 2007, ISBN 0715328352, pp.229-230
  3. Suzie Heumann. "Pompoir and the mare's trick: Beyond sex positions". Everything.com. Retrieved 28 January 2010.
  4. "Asanas - Beyond sex positions". Tantra.com. Retrieved 28 March 2010.
  5. Kick, Russ, ed. (2006) Everything You Know about Sex Is Wrong: the Disinformation guide to the extremes of human sexuality (and everything in between). New York: The Disinformation Company ISBN 1932857176; p. 125
  6. Love, Brenda (1992) The Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices. Fort Lee, NJ: Barricade Books ISBN 1569800111; p. 146
  7. Quentin, Rod (2001) The Art of Sex. (Body Works.) Sheffield: Quentin Publications ISBN 1872709109; p. 56
  8. Kuriansky, Judith ‘’The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex’’; p. 208

Molvaer, Reidulf (2009) Two Making One: Amor and Eros in Tandem. AEG Publishing Group ISBN 1608609960; pp. 172–73